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Avoiding Harassment
Unfortunately, the potential for sexual harassment and intimidation
is a reality around the world, as it is at home. Be prepared.
Do your networking and research before you leave. Find out as
much as you can about the roles of both women and men in the places
you plan to visit.
Avoid wearing provocative, form-fitting clothing.
In
the Pacific Islands, a
woman's thighs are
considered an erotic part
of her body and should
not be exposed in public. |
A woman
alone may be considered fair game. Understand this and prepare yourself
mentally for any propositions, suggestive comments or catcalls.
Then simply ignore them.
In some male-dominated cultures, it's considered incorrect for
a woman to travel solo. For these and other potentially challenging
destinations, you might want to team up with a companion. Two
women travelling together might have an easier time.
In some cultures, making eye contact with a man is a sign that
you want his company. Some women solve this problem by wearing
dark glasses.
Be aware that you'll probably be openly stared at. In countries
where you look very different from everybody else, both men and
women will make no attempt to hide their curiosity.
Behave confidently. When you're out, try to look as if you know
exactly where you're going and what you're doing.
Take your cue from the local women. As a general rule, if they
don't sit in cafés alone, you shouldn't do so either. If
they aren't wearing sleeveless dresses, neither should you.
In
India, a female's upper
arms are considered
sensual areas of the body
and therefore must never
be exposed in public. |
Never
accept car rides or hitchhike. Ask the local hotels to recommend
reputable taxis and, whenever possible, try to double up with someone
you know when travelling by cab.
Crowded trains and buses can be perfect breeding grounds for antisocial
behaviour. Some men will use this opportunity to touch or pinch
the female passengers standing close to them. If this happens
to you, make a fuss. Point at the offender and chastise him in
a loud voice. He'll probably slink away. However, to avoid these
types of advances, consider choosing reserved seating if you can
afford it. It will be money well spent.
In countries like Egypt and India, take advantage of the female-only
sections in buses, trains and subways. Use this excellent opportunity
to communicate with local women and their children.
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